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WRITE YOUR STORY
Write down, in a paragraph or two, the
story of your desired future. Write down what you'll be doing, where
you'll be living, and the successes you'll be enjoying. This will
be a motivator for you in both the immediate present and the future to
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VISUALIZE INTO THE FUTURE
Close your eyes and see yourself doing
whatever it is that you wish to be doing. If you want to get in shape,
picture a slim, healthy you running or working out. If your dream
is to start a small business, see yourself on opening day, greeting customers
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VISUALIZE BACKWARDS
When you visualize backwards, you see where
you were and how far you have come. If your goal was to get organized,
and you have made enormous improvement in that area, visualize back to
when things weren't going so well. This will keep you heading in
the right direction. |
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DREAM BIG
When you think about your future, don't
be afraid to dream big. This will make short-term failures easier
to handle. When you hit an obstacle it won't stop you because your
eyes are set on a bigger goal. |
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EDUCATE YOURSELF
Learn, read, talk about, listen, experience
everything you can about your particular goal or dream. If you wish
to be an author, you can take classes, read books, write, talk with other
writers, join work-shops, etc. |
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GET ORGANIZED
A clean, tidy, and well organized home,
office, and life is a must for the motivated mind. Physical clutter
can easily lead to mental clutter. Keep your life organized, and
you will find more energy and clarity in every day. |
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PLACE MOTIVATORS IN YOUR HOME AND OFFICE
Place symbols, signs, notes, and/or objects
that remind you of your goals and dreams in your home, office, car, wallet,
planner, or calendar. These reminders will guarantee a constant stream
of motivation. |
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VOLUNTEER
Volunteer your time to helping others.
When you give of yourself you will realize how much you have in your own
life, and how satisfying it is to make other people happy. |
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HELP OTHERS WITH MOTIVATION
Only when you teach others do you fully
understand the subject at hand. Help your children get motivated,
help your friends set effective goals, help your husband, wife, or lover
achieve personal dreams. |
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SPEND TIME WITH CHILDREN / TEENAGERS /
MENTEES
Spending time with children, teenagers,
and/or mentees will put things in perspective for you. You may be
stressed out from work and worried about getting everything done on time,
but when you play with your kids or participate in other youth related
activities, the worries and stress seem to melt away. Children specifically
have a simple way of looking at things, and that is something we could
all benefit from. |
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CREATE A BUDDY SYSTEM
Do you have a close friend who is trying
to accomplish something? Is your husband, wife or lover setting goals
for improvement? If so, join them in a buddy system. You will
each serve to motivate the other, offering words of encouragement and helpful
reminders as you both progress towards your particular goals. |
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FIND A ROLE MODEL
Choose a role model to learn from.
You won't have to reinvent the wheel when you can follow an exemplary example
of someone you respect. |
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TAKE A WALK OR DRIVE
Take a walk around the block or a short
drive through the neighborhood to relax, reflect, and enjoy some quiet
time. We all need a break now and then, and a quick walk or drive
is the perfect solution. |
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READ SUCCESS STORIES
Read the success stories of those around
you. In the daily newspaper alone there are dozens of small success
stories that can serve to motivate and inspire you to action. The
library is filled with autobiographies and biographies of ordinary men
and women who have done many extraordinary things. |
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LISTEN TO MUSIC
Music can calm, excite, sadden, and even
motivate. Listening to Rocky's theme song while running is a great
way to use music as a motivator. What's your motivating song? |
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WATCH MOTIVATING MOVIES
One reason people enjoy watching movies
is because of the hero's tale. A young, unexpecting hero is called
to action. After struggling throughout the movie, he learns, grows,
and is victorious in the end. This is motivation at its best.
Make a list of movies that motivate you and build a small library to use
as your motivation station. |
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READ MOTIVATIONAL QUOTATIONS
Located on the Internet and in books are
thousands of quotations that inspire, motivate, and cause us all to think
about our lives in a different way. Search the Internet for quotations
and you will find millions of pages that match just what you are looking
for. |
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CREATE A HEALTHY DIET
Energy is very important to living a happy
life, but that is dependent on eating healthy. Be sure to create
a healthy diet that includes all of the necessary nutrients, minerals,
and vitamins for your system. Following the basic food table is a
good guide for starters. |
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GET ENOUGH SLEEP
Some people can get by on six hours, while
others require seven to eight. Regardless of what you need in sleep,
make sure you get enough. A few nights in a row of only three or
four hours a night will takes its toll on your motivation, energy, and
overall attitude. |
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NEVER STOP LEARNING
This is the most important lesson of all.
Never stop learning about the world around you. Read, listen, and
learn about the things that interest you. Instead of asking a question
and being satisfied with an 'I don't know' answer, go out there and find
the answer. Be very curious. |
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USE GOALS IN YOUR LIFE
This is the most important tip about goals
- use them! Without goals you will have a difficult time improving
any area of your life. Leaving your future up to chance isn't a good
way to get what you want. Make use of goals throughout your life
and enjoy the success and happiness they bring. |
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BRAINSTORM
Get out a clean sheet of paper and a pen.
Sit in a quiet, well-lit area, and think, think, think. Write down
any ideas that pop into your head. Financial goals, personal goals,
relationship goals, health goals, etc. Write down every idea, and when
you're finished you'll have more than enough goals to work with. |
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WRITE YOUR GOAL DOWN ON PAPER
Once you select a goal to work towards,
document it by typing it or writing it out on paper. This makes it
more tangible and concrete. A goal that is left to float around in
your head may be forgotten before you have had a chance to work on it. |
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MAKE YOUR GOAL SPECIFIC
Goals must be specific in order to be effective.
Improving your relationship with your children is an important and worthwhile
goal, but it may be too broad. Instead, your plan could include a
play-day once a week, family dinner time each night from 6:00 to 7:00 and
a game night once a week. This plan has a greater chance of success. |
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USE DEADLINES
Procrastination is deadly to your goals
and objectives. A great way to leapfrog that problem is to give your
goal a deadline. As with the goal itself, make your deadline specific. |
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USE A START DATE
Deadlines are very important to goal setting,
but we can't forget about their counterpart - start dates. Once a
goal is created you may have many reasons for putting it off. Give
your goal a start date and stick to it. |
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MAKE YOUR GOALS CHALLENGING
In order for goals to be effective, they
must be challenging. If your goal is too easy to achieve, your motivation
and dedication will decrease. Your goals should make you reach and
extend your current abilities and skills. |
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MAKE YOUR GOALS ACHIEVABLE
Setting a goal that is out of your reach
completely will cause frustration, anger, and self-doubt. Be sure to set
goals that challenge you, but are also reasonable. |
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MAKE A DETAILED PLAN OF ACTION
Create a detailed step-by-step plan of
action for each part of your goal. One of the main reasons many goals
are not accomplished is the lack of understanding of what needs to be done.
Plan your work and work your plan. |
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DON'T OVERDO IT
Don't set too many goals at once.
One to three is a good amount to start with. Spreading yourself too
thin will create a situation where no single goal will receive the attention
it requires. |
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MEASURE YOUR PROGRESS
Measure your progress as you work on your
goal. You may wish to write a 300 page novel. Don't set 300 pages
as the only goal. Break it up into 25 - 50 page increments and keep
a daily tally of the pages you complete. Measuring your progress
keeps your motivation peaking during your goal's life cycle. |
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WISH LIST
Make a list of ten things that you must
do in life. Starting a business, running a marathon, visiting Europe,
learning French, etc. Put the list in a drawer in your office or
home. |
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QUICK REMINDERS
Post-it notes or electronic calendar reminders
are great tools to help you remember your daily tasks and goals.
Just don't overdo it. You don't want so many notes taped to your
computer screen that you can't read what's on it or have so many reminders
popping up on your computer screen that it distracts you from the current
task / goal at hand. |
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REWARD YOURSELF
Set a reward for yourself. If you
accomplish a small step or your entire goal, celebrate. You've worked
hard and you deserve it. Go out to dinner with your family, take
a short vacation, or do anything else that makes you happy. |
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WHAT'S IN IT FOR ME - WIFM?
Why are you setting this goal? Write
down 'What's In It For Me' for each one of your goals. You must be
able to state clearly the reasons why you are setting this goal.
If you cannot, delete the goal from your list and move to the next one. |
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USE THE RIGHT WORDS
Use statements like, 'I have a positive
attitude,' or 'We'll find a solution,' in daily conversation. The words
you use on a daily basis have a major impact on your attitude and moods. |
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STRIVE FOR OPTIMISM
I have spoken with many people who see
being a pessimist or an optimist as a 50/50 chance, believing one is just
as good as the other. That is a trap! Having a positive attitude
is something you should strive for. It isn't something you are or
are not, it is something you can become. |
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WHAT COMPANIONS DO YOU KEEP?
Do your friends have negative attitudes?
Does it rub off on you? Many times the company we keep can affect
our attitudes. If your group at work or at home negatively affects
your attitude, take the necessary steps to change the situation. |
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WHEN YOU KNOW YOU NEED A CHANGE
When you know you aren't happy, admit it
to yourself and take action to reverse it. This is a very difficult
thing to do, especially when you aren't in the mood to admit things to
yourself. It may be hard, but it is worth it. When you are
being negative, realize it and change it. |
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LISTEN TO WHAT OTHERS SAY
We may like to tell ourselves that we are
positive people, but it's not always true. Listen to what your friends
and family say about your attitude. They may say things that you
don't want to hear, but sometimes the best changes in life come from constructive
criticism. Obviously this may depend on the source. |
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LEARN WHAT MAKES YOU TICK
When you know what makes you upset, you
will be able to avoid these situations and save yourself the tension and
frustration they bring. If it is a situation that you cannot avoid,
learn how to make the best of it. |
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WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY?
This is vital to your attitude and mood.
Your 'happy' buttons will serve to improve your attitude again and again.
When I'm not in a good mood, I first ask myself if I have eaten that day.
More often than not, after getting food into my system my attitude does
a complete 180 degree turnaround. |
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GIVE YOURSELF A BREAK
Give yourself a quick time out now and
then when you are becoming stressed or upset. Often a short break
can help you to put things in perspective and return to the situation with
a positive demeanor. |
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THINK TWICE BEFORE YOU ACT ONCE
Before you act, think about what your action
with cause. If an employee does something wrong that negatively affects
you, don't attack. Think about the best response Only after you have
done this twice should you take action. |
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REACT VS. RESPOND
These two words are the difference between
a happy, enthusiastic, positive person and a sad, frustrated, negative
person. When anything happens in life that affects you, both directly
and indirectly, respond to the situation. This means you think about
it, use reason to find a solution, and take the appropriate measures. When
you react, you skip the reasoning stage and do what comes naturally in
the moment. This only serves to cause more problems and frustration.
Respond, do not react. |
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APPRECIATE THE THINGS YOU HAVE
Take a moment to look around and learn
to appreciate everything you have in your life. Your friends, family,
career, home, etc. This is enough to create a positive attitude because
no matter how bad things get in life, we still must be thankful for everything
we still have. Put things into perspective, and enjoy the good things
in your life. |
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YOU DON'T ALWAYS HAVE TO BE HAPPY
Being in a down mood is okay, sometimes.
You don't always have to be upbeat, excited, and outgoing. This could
lead to burnout, a blow-up, or just bad karma. There are days when
things aren't going right, or we just feel a little out of it. These
days are okay, and the problem(s) (like a bad rain storm) will pass. |
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THINK ABOUT IT
Look at problems logically. When
you let emotion take over, you may do things that made sense at the time
but in the end weren't the best choices. |
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DON'T JOIN THE GOSSIP
Don't join in on the negative conversations
around you. If you see a conversation heading towards that road,
excuse yourself politely and leave. |
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START IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION
Wake up with a smile and with energy.
You have a lot to accomplish and enjoy today. Life is short, and
you are going to make the most of this day, and every day after that.!!! |
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